A long trip with a toddler can literally ruin your family holiday. The stress it can cause both parents and child can be unbearable. Read our top 10 tips for how to travel with children and make a long trip smoother for the whole family.
Before the journey starts
Play and get your child to do plenty of physical activity before the journey starts. Airports are great for running or go for a walk before getting into the car.
Entertainment!
While a portable DVD player may be ideal for many, it is not always a viable alternative. You might not have access to one, it could be difficult for several children to share one and in a car your child might get car sick. A thriftier and ideal alternative for car sick children are audio books and stories, which can be bought online or a local bookshop.
Snacks, snacks and more snacks!
Nothing keeps a toddler as busy as snacks, the more the better. It is not about quantities or sugar treats. Using small containers, make an array of small, healthy and different types of snacks. Raisins, cut up fruit or veg, crackers, breadsticks, cheese, and so on. Hand out the containers one by one and don't let your child choose, you will lose the idea of surprise. Avoid the sugary treats, they only give your child more restless energy.
Small packages
A similar idea to the snacks above. Make small packages of items, new or old, that your child might like and distribute them to him over the trip. The opening of the package will be part of the fun and excitement. If you are flying, make sure not to fully close the packages as you may be asked to open them up.
Personal back pack
Your child may be too small to carry a back pack, but let him choose a few items he would like to have with him on the trip. Focus on small, practical and light items. Packing the bag together will also give you a chance to prepare your child for the trip ahead.
Make a map
A good idea for when you travel in a car or train, is to make a very simplified map. Mark out towns or other landmarks you may pass. It will give your child the chance to mentally break up the trip into smaller sections and goals. You may even avoid the repetitive "Are we there yet?"
Naps and rest
If possible plan your trips so the coincide with your child's naps and usual down time. You may want to delay the nap, just remember that some children become overtired if they don't follow their usual routine.
A bit of exercise
Don't expect him to sit quietly for long periods if he has an energetic personality. If you are travelling by car take short breaks often, if you are in a plane move up and down isles. You may be bothering other passengers a bit, but it is better than a frustrated and screaming child.
List the games and songs
Make the whole trip easier for yourself and prepare a good list of simple games to play or songs to sing. When you see irritable boredom or fidgety restlessness looming, get your list out and give your child something else to focus on.
Pack a bit of comfort
You may have packed the favourite soft toy, but a blanket and a pillow will give your child plenty of comfort. Both will make it easier for your child to relax and feel calm.
If you are flying
• Give yourself plenty of time in the airport for the security checks.
• Check all the baggage allowances and restrictions related to child items such as buggies and car seats.
• Watch out for the take-off and landing, have liquids or small snacks ready in case your child gets ear pains due to the changing air pressure.
• Double the usual quantity of packing in your changing bag, delays are not unusual.
• Try to get seating at the very front or very back. Both have access to more space.
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