Parents will at times obsess with their child’s hair or lack of it. The firs haircut can be a major event for both parent and child. We have talked to Mary McDonagh-Faherty, owner of the child friendly hairsalon Kranky Kutz in Galway. She has answered our questions on children, hair and the first time at the hairdresser.
What is the best age for a first haircut?
There really is no right age for your child’s first haircut. Each cut depends on the child and what they are comfortable with. If a child is frightened, waiting a couple of months can make all the difference. I have seen children get first cuts at one ye and others at 1 and a half.
What should look for in a hairdresser for the first haircut?
Patience is key. If a hairdresser is frustrated or impatient, it will only make the child more uncomfortable. Ideally, you want somebody who is used to dealing with children. A hairdresser that tries to make the child feel like this is fun and who is flexible enough to take their time to make the child feel comfortable.
How often should I cut my child's hair? Should I bother cutting it?
You should cut your child's hair as often as is necessary to keep it healthy, which is as often as yourself. Boys tend to benefit from a longer time between cuts because they have shorter hair Girls tend to need cuts more often as it helps the hair stay healthy, which in turn helps to prevent tangling.
Is it true that by cutting my child's hair it will grow thicker?
No, the hair may appear thicker after a cut, but is in reality the same thickness. It looks healthier and gives it a better look.
How often should I wash my child's hair and what products should I use?
Only wash your child's hair as needed. Washing it too often simply strips the hair of its essential oils that are lacking in kids. Twice a week is plenty.
What are the most practical hairstyles for boys?
Practical hairstyles are easy hairstyles that don't bother the child by getting in his eyes, mouth and wherever else, during activities he decides to do, even headstand. Short is usually easier for these purposes.
What are the best hairstyles for girls?
Girls tend to do better with shoulder-length hair as it doesn't get tangled as much, yet you can still do various styles.
My toddler still has cradle cap, what can I do?
The best treatment for cradle cap is gentle scrubbing with a very soft brush during washing. More severe cradle cap can be treated by applying baby oil, scrubbing it with a gentle brush, then apply shampoo and finally rinse it all. Otherwise, time will heal it. See the article on Cradle Cap.
How do I comb my girl’s curls?
There are detangling sprays that greatly help with tangles and curls. There is also a new comb, The Tangle Teezer, that helps prevent the damage caused by ordinary combing.
My toddler’s hair has hardly grown since birth, what can I do?
Nothing, just give it time. It will grow in its own time.
What should I do if my child screams the salon down and refuses to cut his hair?
Our advice is simple; do not force your child to sit still. Do not forcefully hold his head or pin down his arms. It is very traumatising and will work against you every time. There are ways to help. Firstly, try finding a salon that caters to children. They are more familiar with the common problems and can help a child feel at ease. Secondly, if your child still won't cooperate, try bringing him to the salon occasionally to become familiar with it. A familiar environment helps. Thirdly, if all else fails, let his hair grow for a while. It may not be what you like but these years are so special, why make it harder for them than it already isA little extra: (This is something I would like to add, like a quick list of things to think about before your child's first visit to the hairdresser, please feel free to add to it)
Things to think about:
- Ask for first time specials or first haircut memorabilia.
- Discuss the available styles.
- Write down your questions on any hair or scalp issues.
Mary McDonagh-Faherty is the owner of Kranky Kuts, Galway City, which caters for children. Kids sit in cars while they watch their own personal DVDs and there is also a section for teenagers. Kids can play the Wii and parents can sip coffee while they wait or get their own hair done. http://www.krankykuts.ie/
Do you have any great tips to share?